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Johanna van Zanten's avatar

What a lot of (real) fears you described. I am offering another option for escape. Many of those circumstances do not apply or not to the same extent if you move to Canada. As a country with barely 34 million over an enormous landmass (but mostly living in the strip adjacent to the USA) we always need more trained and educated people, as well as trades people and agricultural labourers. Our society is not completely non-racist but our claim to fame is being multiculturall. The government of Canada is fast-tracking immigrants from the USA and has a list of people for which it makes an exception to speed up the process. People in the USA cannot imagine how much easier life is when you are getting medical care before first checking if your insurance company will pay for the costs. It also is a hell-of-a-lot easier if you know that your rights are inalienable, even when you are a newcomer, and when your kids can go to school without the anti-gay BS etc. and no training sessions to crawl under your desk because of a shooter. And we have no president! I am an immigrant.

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CalamityJane's avatar

We left in 2022. Both our grown children remained in the U.S. Spent a year living in Italy. Lovely! Except for the language barrier which is no small thing at age 65. Also please consider the tax burden. We went knowing the tax implications. To retain our U.S. citizenship, taxes were higher and required filing 2 sets of tax returns (one in Italian). It was doable but burdensome. Cheaper if you give up U.S. citizenship which I would never do. The Italians and Italian culture were so warm and welcoming. But I realized I could not stay forever. I actually felt homesick for the U.S. and felt a patriotism I had taken for granted. Living as a stranger in a strange land was clarifying: the entire western world order revolves around the U.S. economic, legal, and political engine. There will be a time for rebuilding. I think of Zelensky whenever I have the luxury of feeling afraid.

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