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As a Generation X Canadian, I believe you have captured brilliantly what is happening not just between Canada and the US, but globally. However, I would add one thing that is also simultaneously at play here, in a very

important grass roots way. For over 80 years, Canada's relationship with the US was rather like two young best friends growing up together. However, along the way the US became increasingly more powerful and wealthy, and gradually became drunk in it's own love of self. It started bragging about itself constantly, using phrases like "American exceptionalism", began beating it's chest loudly everwhere it went, yelling at the top of it's lungs how it was better than everyone. It started acting like the schoolyard bully in many ways. And over time it started taking it's much quieter friend, Canada, for granted. It began treating it's loyal and longtime friend as "less than", began referring to it's other friends, like the UK, as it's closest friend, not Canada. When the World would step up to help the US in wars, during 911, etc. it was other countries the US always made sure it thanked, often leaving Canada's name out. Canadians became increasingly and painfully aware that the US took them for granted, that the US didn't even bother to know it's old friend. When Canadian Rick Mercer traveled the US filming the show "Talking to Americans", it became alarmingly clear the average American knew very little to nothing about Canada, some even remarkably unaware Canada had it's own Navy! This was a slap in the face and a wake up call to Canadians that while we educated ourselves about our old friend, the US, while we took the time to know who they were, that same effort felt unnecessary to Americans. We slowly woke up to the reality that our old friend didn't really value our friendship, that they felt in some ways our friendship was a "sure thing" they didn't need to nurture or work on maintaining. Canadians quietly watched while Americans bragged about themselves, acted like the World would be nothing without it, and slowly, over time, that friendship eroded to the point that Canadians felt betrayed, taken for granted, unappreciated, and disrespected. You are right when you said that Americans aren't understanding what is happening today isn't merely about Trump. Trump was the proverbial "straw that broke the camel's back". He said the quiet part out loud. The utter disrespect and lack of appreciation for the longtime friendship between Canada and the US that Canadians had been feeling for decades was made official, loudly and with verbal violence. This was the breaking point for Canadians as individuals. This was the moment WE no longer valued the friendship but turned our backs and moved on from it. We boycot not only US alcohol, but in our everyday grocery shopping we left US products on the shelves to slowly rot like the US did our friendship. That is how Canadians sent the message to our old friend that we had had enough. We would no longer be taken for granted, be mocked, be ignored and dismissed as unimportant. We would invest instead in relationships with other Countries who knew our value, who took the time to know us, see us, appreciate us and respect us. Your decades of bragadocious tirades, of drinking your own Koolaide about how the US was superior, untouchable, the years of disrespect shown to others, have ended in a painful reality check for every American. Your house of cards has tumbled and you are mired in shock that no one is coming to help you rebuild. Canadians don't hate Americans. We are hurt, disappointed and frankly angry. We know you were drunk on your own Koolaide. But here's your reality check......it's time to sober up. Your Government doesn't define who you are, the American people do. So if you don't like how you are being portrayed around the World, get off your asses, stop waiting for someone to save you, and save yourselves. Home of the brave? Prove it......to the World, but most importantly to yourselves.

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I for one, am so proud of Canada and Canadians for kicking my country, the U.S. to the curb.

We most definitely deserved their walking away from us and showing this awful elitist group of Americans running this country now, that we are not needed nor wanted.

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